5 Tips for Handling Holiday Stress – #2

2. Tap into your “personal control panel.” This controls what happens in your mind. Remember to “Play,” but skip the “Fast Forward,” because, as Gandhi famously said, “There is more to life than increasing its speed.”  Also, “Fast Forward” can lead to “self-fulfilling prophecy” scenarios in your head like, “Oh I know what’s going to happen:…

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Do You Inspire TRUST in Those Around You?

Is TRUST an issue in your workplace?  Is it an issue at home?  What can you do to rebuild it with your significant people?  Or build it in the first place? My presentations on this subject have been well received by the financial industry and others.  And I’m putting together a helpful guide full of…

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What a difference a coach makes!

What a difference a coach makes!  I know the song title is “what a difference a day makes” and that applies, too, to my favorite game.  Yesterday—week 9 of the NFL season, was truly an example of “any given Sunday.”  I know—I’m mixing my songs and movies here, but REALLY!  Anybody who picked all the…

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You don't have to love football to learn the lessons of the game.

I just returned from keynoting at two events for women: one in Boston and one in Orlando for the Ophthalmic Women Leaders (OWL.) I was not surprised to see so many “football girls,” however, seeing my speech through the eyes of “non-football girls” was quite enlightening! There were moments during the speech when people would…

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The Colts Didn’t “Back Up” – Do You?

I love Peyton Manning, Quarterback of the Indianapolis Colts. I love his command of his job and his team and his ability to win games – even in the last two minutes. He inspires me to give my all to my job, and never give up. I dedicated my book to him, along with my…

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Detroit Lions making a comeback…are you?

We are reinventing ourselves to survive in this economy.  I like to think of it as a “comeback.”  Last year was such a down year for corporate meetings using outside speakers, I toyed with the idea of going back into Human Resources for some company, other than my own.  Then, someone quoted Will Smith:  “”There’s…

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Leadership Lessons: Peyton Manning Inspires Again!

When it comes to leadership lessons, Peyton, Peyton—you’ve done it again—you’ve inspired me!  I dedicated my book Necessary Roughness to you, because you inspired the first words, “The intention to get to a certain place makes you unstoppable.”  That was in week 5 of the 2008 season, when you were unstoppable, and led your Colts…

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